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INTRODUCTION: Reasons For Soulmates
1. "Every time we search for a partner we might think that only someone permanent is likely to come into our life. So we keep looking for the ‘perfect’ one to share it. But it is my belief that soulmates come into our life for four main reasons, three of them temporary and only one permanent: They come in to:

a. Teach us something significant.
b. Lead us out of a stressful or crisis situation.
c. Enhance our feelings of worth and boost our wellbeing for the next stage.
d. Be the BIG ONE – the ideal soulmate we seek.

Most hurt that comes in relationships arises from the wrong expectations around partners because we like to see every date as leading to potential permanence (Reason d). We burden each new relationship with our need for long-term security only to find that it was not as permanent as we hoped. We then miss the message we were given by belittling or negating the experience. But any relationship always prepares us for dealing more competently with the next one. It’s our ego, failed expectations and acute disappointment which prevent us from appreciating what we learnt while encouraging us to vilify our partners instead."

Purpose of the Book
10 EASY STEPS TO....FINDING YOUR IDEAL SOULMATE! is meant for people (perhaps over 24 years old) who:

* Are seriously looking to settle down with someone or desiring a significant partnership;

* Are in the first phase of their new courtship, who have had only a few dates;

* Haven’t even met their next date yet!

* Are struggling with a current relationship.

10 EASY STEPS TO....FINDING YOUR IDEAL SOULMATE! can also be used by people already in relationships to find out which of the 10 Steps is missing or why their relationship is failing. Like a checklist, it will reveal the gaps and blockages. But that’s the easy part. Harder still will be taking the necessary actions to remedy them.

10 EASY STEPS TO....FINDING YOUR IDEAL SOULMATE! will provide some key answers to pressing questions for both single and attached people. "It is designed to help the reader discover real happiness. Not the wishful, fleeting type – all excitement but no substance, and soon gone in a haze of shattered dreams – but a true long-lasting friendship with that special person who enhances your life, affirms who you are, loves you to bits, reinforces what you seek and helps you to grow together as a winning team."

Best of all, these 10 EASY STEPS TO....FINDING YOUR IDEAL SOULMATE! can be applied to any aspect of your life – spiritual, career, home or social – to make it even more successful and fulfilling. In short, you will feel much more confident, motivated and empowered in your life and relationships!

10 EASY STEPS TO....FINDING YOUR IDEAL SOULMATE! will answer the following questions and much more...

* What are the FIVE MAGICAL INGREDIENTS for successfully finding that partner?
* What is CHEMISTRY and how can YOU find it?
* What really makes people ATTRACTED to one another?
* What is your strongest ASSET when you are trying to date someone?
* Which TWO WORDS are the foundation for all relationships?
* What is guaranted to kill a relationship quicker than you can say, "Can we have a date?"
* What ONE WORD guarantees the success of your relationship?
* Which THREE LITTLE WORDS might be missing from your relationship? (It's not necessarily the popular ones you might think!)

OTHER EXCERPTS
2. ".....next time when you go looking for a soulmate, if you believe she is too fat or too thin, too common or too posh, leave her alone. Don’t try to change her to fit your ideal unless she initiates the change through her own education and awareness. Anything else will only work for the brief time that she is trying to impress you. She will go on all sorts of weight reduction/improvement diets and even take elocution lessons because the excitement of the new relationship will encourage her to do anything for you. However, soon after you have settled down and she feels secure, the weight will be back on, or she will still be swearing like a trouper, because you did not change her belief system in the first place and she certainly did not change for herself."


3. "We also hear the usual cliché of ‘opposites attract’, but they don’t, in fact. No research has reliably shown that opposites really attract. Instead, most research has shown that people like best those who are most like themselves. Certain obvious elements like skin colour and religion might differ, but partners who are significantly opposed in belief, perception and behaviour would find little point of contact or agreement, which would make for a frustrating, stressful and insecure situation."

4. "Physical attraction is not just about looks, body form, shape, hair and eyes. It also incorporates material things (such as money, possessions, status, success), the lifestyle enjoyed and the level of personal creativity. These all combine to create the perfect, attractive physical package. This part of the attraction process is very powerful because no matter how we might search for the ‘inner beauty’ of a person, we are drawn by their outer looks first! That is Nature’s deliberate way of getting us together. That is all we can see before establishing anything else about that person.

So don’t believe anyone who says they ‘don’t care about looks but what’s inside’. That’s sheer nonsense. In that case, they might as well go with a chimp or a horse because it is what’s inside that matters! We cannot see anyone 'inside' before we see their physicality! The reason why they say that is because they perhaps have low self-esteem (shyness or non-affirmation), not valuing their own looks or self, and so they devalue others too, while hoping that people won’t notice their looks either."

5. "Commitment to life means seizing the opportunities which come your way. When you find a soulmate, it is not for you to ask how long, to dwell on when there will be a break up or to wonder whether the person will be in your life forever or for now. The only thing you are required to do at that first moment of realisation is to give thanks that someone wonderful has come into your life. Just sit back and enjoy the ride without questioning its credibility or longevity. Allow it to unfold around you in an exciting and surprising way. You would be amazed at what is possible. It is our desire to control everything in our lives which make us fret and worry about the outcome of any new connection. We burden it with all our expectations and then wonder why it collapses under the strain of our fears and worries."

Described as 'an absolutely gorgeous little book' by many readers, 10 EASY STEPS TO....FINDING YOUR IDEAL SOULMATE! will have you hooked from the very first page. SECURE YOUR COPY NOW!

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