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Are you with the RIGHT soulmate?

  • How do you feel with the guy or gal you are currently with?

  • Do you feel really comfortable and happy in their presence?

  • What is the quality of life you are experiencing?

  • Are you being TRUE to yourself and your needs?

  • Could you be in an abusive relationship without knowing it?



  • QUIZ Part 2: Test how much this person suits you right now!

    The SCORING results for the 26 questions are given at the end. This quiz should be taken with the other quiz: Is Your Partner/Date the WRONG person for you?

    Select one of the answers to each item as it currently applies to you.

    The man/woman I am with usually:

    1. Is cheerful and optimistic.
    2. Regularly.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    3. Likes to communicate rather than blocks discussions.
    4. Regularly.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    5. Is supportive in my ambitions.
    6. Regularly.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    7. Tells me how GOOD/ATTRACTIVE I look.
    8. Regularly.
      Sometimes
      Hardly

    9. Reinforces my competence, talents and self-belief. Regularly.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    10. Uses my name.
    11. All the time.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    12. Implicitly trusts me.
    13. All the time.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    14. Trusts my judgement and opinions.
    15. All the time.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever





    16. Supports my learning, development and career etc.
    17. All the time.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    18. Values my independence and encourages it.
    19. All the time.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    20. Respects my opinions and any contributions I make.
    21. All the time.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    22. Welcomes my friends and family.
    23. Regularly.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    24. Accepts that I have a right to say 'NO' to sex/intimacy
    25. Regularly.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    26. Readily admits to being wrong.
    27. Regularly.
      Sometimes
      Hardly

    28. Does his/her share of the domestic chores. Regularly.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    29. Is not mean with money and is generous towards me.
    30. All the time.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    31. Appreciates my anxieties.
    32. Regularly.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever



    33. Is romantic, passionate and warm.
    34. Regularly.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    35. Is tolerant of my perceived weaknesses/faults.
    36. Regularly.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    37. Is protective without being possessive.
    38. Regularly.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    39. Does not smoke and drinks only moderately.
    40. All the time.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    41. Is very consistent.
    42. All the time.
      Sometimes
      Hardly

    43. Is confident and secure in him/herself. Regularly.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    44. Never uses violence, regardless of anger.
    45. All the time.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    46. Treats me with value and respect.
    47. All the time
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    48. Takes responsibility for his/her own wellbeing and happiness
    49. All the time.
      Sometimes
      Hardly ever

    THANK YOU. Please complete the details requested (for research), and click the SEND FORM button. Your score will be sent to you shortly.

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    SCORE KEY:
    For the best result, match it up with the Part 1 Quiz HERE. The results for BOTH quizzes MUST be on opposite levels to be accurate. For example, if the person scored on the top level in the Mr/Ms WRONG quiz, then they would score on the bottom level in this quiz.

    65-78: This person is a thoroughly good egg and a real gem. Very loving, caring and supportive. Do folks like them truly exist? If she/he is for real, set the wedding day now! They don't come any better!

    49-64: Acknowledging that no one is perfect, most decent caring people come into this category. This is a very supportive, empathetic person - a true rough diamond who just needs nurturing. Don't let him/her slip away.

    31-48: This person is confident one moment and insecure the next. Likely to be supportive but to also blame others when things go wrong. There could be sporadic abusive tendencies masked by false confidence and lots of contrition after each outburst/action.

    15-30: Not a great CV for someone in this category. Likely to be an abuser. All the signs are there in the lack of action or lack of respect. Beware of being trapped in their net until too late!

    0-14: Not many redeeming features here. This abuser is definitely Ms/Mr Wrong! Don't wait around for the evidence before you quit. It usually isn't very pleasant.



    What should I do if my score is not as expected?

    If you scored LESS THAN 64, you would find one of our personalised Coaching Services very useful! LESS THAN 31 and you definitely need some advice or coaching!

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    Do something about it TODAY!


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