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Think You are Ready For a Relationship?

Many people are inclined to believe that because they feel lonely, they might long for affection, or they have not lived with someone for a while that they are ready for a relationship. But none of those factors is the only basis for a connection. The primary factor is that one FEELS ready emotionally and practically.

If one is still carrying a lot of anger, resentment and bitterness from a former friendship or still feel a lot of confusion and regret, any new relationship will not work out as it will be drowned by negative elements. One has to know what one is seeking before one can recognise it.Furthermore, a relationship is not just about what it will bring you but what you are able to GIVE to that person as well. So where are you now in your life?


QUIZ: Find out where you are, emotionally right now!

This quiz should give you some answers.

For each statement, select a reply that DEFINITELY applies to you.

  1. I don't quite know who I am and where I am going.
  2. Always
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Not at all

  3. I don't know yet what I want in my future partner.
  4. Always
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Not at all

  5. I find it really hard to love and appreciate myself.
  6. Always
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Not at all

  7. I don't find it too easy to appreciate someone else.
  8. Always
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Never

  9. I keep referring back to my last relationship and feeling bad about it.
  10. Always
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Never

  11. I shouldn't have left my last relationship. I think it was a mistake.
  12. Yes
    Sometimes
    Maybe
    Not at all

  13. I cannot see into the future yet. Everything seems uncertain.
  14. Always
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Never



  15. I tend to talk about me and my situation a lot.
  16. Always
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Never

  17. I find it hard to praise or to accept praise.
  18. Always
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Never

  19. I am constantly thinking about sex and being with someone.
  20. Always
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Never

  21. I still live with my ex/partner, though we are emotionally separated.
  22. Yes
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Never

  23. I feel rather selfish just now, not really part of a potential couple.
  24. Yes
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Not at all

  25. I would not be able to spend too many weekends with a new mate.
  26. Yes
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Not at all

  27. Time spent with this new person would be limited, in view of my other commitments.
  28. Yes
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Not at all





  29. I really don't have time to communicate too much with any new friend.
  30. Yes
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Not at all

  31. Just now I think I need someone to really listen to me than anything else.
  32. Yes
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Not at all

  33. I tend to be very absorbed in my work and sorting out my home situation.
  34. Always
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Never

  35. I desire the company but I don't really want to see anyone too often.
  36. Yes
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Not at all

  37. I couldn't take on any more responsibility than I have already.
  38. Yes
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Not at all

  39. I just need someone to go out with and spend odd times with.
  40. Yes
    Sometimes
    Rarely
    Not at all

THANK YOU. Please complete the details requested (for research), and click the SEND FORM button. Your score will be sent to you shortly.

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SCORE KEY:
0-14
: You are rearing to go, emotionally and physically. Nothing to stop you now. Good Luck!

15-29: You are almost ready. The mindset is nearly there. It just needs some physical considerations to catch up.

30-47: You are in transition, on your way to appreciating a new relationship with someone, but still have some way to go before you feel truly comfortable about it. You still have some doubts though they are slowly receding.

48-65:You have a lot of work to do on yourself, and definitely need more time to do it, though you are heading in the right direction. If you have been like that for a long time, you are probably being hampered by emotional fear and mistrust than anything else. A relationship needs TWO people to work at it. Being ruled by fear and insecuroty won't do make it work. There has to be much more accommodating.

66-80: You are definitely NOT ready for a relationship. It's all about sex or basic companionship just now. The higher the score the more stark this is and the more unprepared you are. You really don't have much to give anyone at present. It means you need much more time to build that confidence, self love and acceptance of your situation, and to work out where you're heading before you become involved with someone else.





What should I do if my score is not as expected?

If you scored MORE THAN 29, you would find one of our personalised Coaching Services very useful! MORE THAN 47 and you definitely need some advice or coaching!

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