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Think You are Ready For a Relationship?
Many people are inclined to believe that because they feel lonely, they might long for affection, or they have not lived with someone for a while that they are ready for a relationship. But none of those factors is the only basis for a connection. The primary factor is that one FEELS ready emotionally and practically.
If one is still carrying a lot of anger, resentment and bitterness from a former friendship or still feel a lot of confusion and regret, any new relationship will not work out as it will be drowned by negative elements. One has to know what one is seeking before one can recognise it.Furthermore, a relationship is not just about what it will bring you but what you are able to GIVE to that person as well. So where are you now in your life?
QUIZ: Find out where you are, emotionally right now!
This quiz should give you some answers.
For each statement, select a reply that DEFINITELY applies to you.
SCORE KEY:
0-14: You are rearing to go, emotionally and physically. Nothing to stop you now. Good Luck!
15-29: You are almost ready. The mindset is nearly there. It just needs some physical considerations to catch up.
30-47: You are in transition, on your way to appreciating a new relationship with someone, but still have some way to go before you feel truly comfortable about it. You still have some doubts though they are slowly receding.
48-65:You have a lot of work to do on yourself, and definitely need more time to do it, though you are heading in the right direction. If you have been like that for a long time, you are probably being hampered by emotional fear and mistrust than anything else. A relationship needs TWO people to work at it. Being ruled by fear and insecuroty won't do make it work. There has to be much more accommodating.
66-80: You are definitely NOT ready for a relationship. It's all about sex or basic companionship just now. The higher the score the more stark this is and the more unprepared you are. You really don't have much to give anyone at present. It means you need much more time to build that confidence, self love and acceptance of your situation, and to work out where you're heading before you become involved with someone else.
What should I do if my score is not as expected?
If you scored MORE THAN 29, you would find one of our personalised Coaching Services very useful! MORE THAN 47 and you definitely need some coaching!
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