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Are YOU a Supportive and Caring Partner/Date?

  • What are you really like towards your date, spouse or partner?

  • How do you treat the person you most value?

  • Do you make him/her feel special?

  • Do you treat them as good as you THINK you do?

  • How do your actions match your words and intentions?



  • QUIZ: Test YOUR SENSITIVITY and CARE for your soulmate now!

    Select one of the answers to each item as it currently applies to you.

    1. I strive to change personal habits which annoy my partner, except for those I consider to be really important to who I am.
    2. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    3. I know my date/partner as a separate individual. I am able to appreciate his/her major concerns, goals, frustrations and satisfactions.
    4. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    5. I notice my partner/date in positive rather than negative ways. I complement more than I criticise.
    6. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    7. When I am wrong or at fault I apologise.
    8. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    9. I treat my partner with great warmth and affection.
    10. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    11. I play my part to make sure that we have much leisure and fun together.
    12. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

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    13. I am aware of my shortcomings as a partner/date and am working to improve them.
    14. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    15. In our relationship, I promote my own needs as well as my partner's/date's.
    16. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    17. When the opportunity arises, I cooperate with my partner/date on activities that are meaningful to him or us both.
    18. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    19. I try to work for reconciliation whenever conflict sets us against each other.
    20. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    21. I am responsive to my partner's need for encouragement and support.
    22. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    23. I am attentive to my partner's/date's intimate and sexual needs.
    24. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    25. Partly through my efforts, my partner/date and I share meaningful relationships with close friends and family who matter to us.
    26. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    27. I encourage fairness and equality between us in both giving and taking, and the sharing of responsibilities between us.
    28. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever




    29. I show that I am committed to the relationship through the difficult as well as the easy times.
    30. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    31. I handle conflict between us without being deliberately threatening, manipulative or intimidating.
    32. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    33. No matter what other commitments I have, I make our relationship a priority.
    34. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    35. I participate actively with my partner in planning and working for a satisfying future.
    36. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    37. I am responsive to my partner's needs for both closeness and space.
    38. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      hardly ever

    39. In communication, I am attentive to my partner/date, both in listening well and being openly expressive.
    40. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    THANK YOU. Please complete the details requested (for research), and click the SEND FORM button. Your score will be sent to you shortly.

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    SCORE KEY:

    85-100: You are an excellent soulmate. Anyone would be proud - and pleased - to have you in their life. The only danger here is complacency, especially if the partnership has been a long one. If your partner is like you too, that would be almost a match made in heaven!

    69-84: This should be a very happy and stable partnership. You are satisfied without being too ecstatic. You are obviously attuned to your partner's needs as much as possible, and you clearly support and value him/her.

    49-68: Most partners are in this category leading satisfactory lives without being earth-shaking, with some dissatisfaction lurking under the surface. You need to be more sensitive to your partner's needs if you want him/her to be attentive to yours. Your relationship definitely needs a little more work on your part to keep the excitement and interest alive while helping you both to thrive.

    31-48: This would be a problematic relationship. There would be lots of dissatisfaction on both sides because you are not really being sensitive to your partners needs. You need to focus on your relationship much more if you expect it to serve you better. Trouble is certainly looming if it hasn't arrived yet!

    15-30: This relationship is floundering, if it isn't already dead! Too much unhappiness and resentment exist between you which are blocking any degree of mutual satisfaction. You are already switched off from his needs and are not even trying anymore. If your situation isn't addressed soon, it could spell the end of the relationship. Dialogue and/or counselling are essential now.

    0-14: This is a dead relationship lacking the three key things to hold it together: value, reciprocity and respect. Don't even mention happiness or satisfaction because they just don't exist here. Time to get out and start over?


    What should I do if my score is not as expected?

    If you scored LESS THAN 69, you would find one of our personalised Coaching Services very useful! LESS THAN 31 and you definitely need some advice or coaching!

    Your Relationship needs personal investment.
    Do something about it TODAY!

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