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Is this a One-Sided Relationship?

  • Is there real chemistry between you both?

  • Is one person Taking while the other Gives?

  • Is the feeling mutual and reciprocal?

  • Does this friendship have any potential for something greater?

  • How do your actions match your words and intentions?




  • QUIZ: Test the strength of your attraction now!

    The SCORING results for the 18 questions are given at the end.

    Select one of the answers to each item as it currently applies to you.

    1. My partner/date strives to fulfil my needs.
    2. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    3. My partner/date strives to make my experience with him/her more pleasurable.
    4. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    5. My partner/date is keen to enhance my feeling of significance, to make me feel special.
    6. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    7. My partner/date loves to be involved with me in activities and events.
    8. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    9. Being together with my partner/date is associated with positive experiences.
    10. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    11. My partner/date provides me with a greater circle of friends and social connections.
    12. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever



    13. My partner/date is very warm and competent.
    14. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    15. My partner/date has appealing qualities which seem to outweigh his negative ones.
    16. Yes, definitely.
      Quite a few.
      Not sure.
      Not quite
      very few.

    17. My partner/date is rather similar to me in values and interest.
    18. Yes, definitely
      Often
      Not sure.
      Not quite.
      Not at all.

    19. My partner/date is physically attractive to me.
    20. Yes, definitely.
      Lots
      Not sure.
      Not as much as I am to him/her.
      Definitely not.

    21. My partner/date is my intellectual equal. We can chat about anything.
    22. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    23. I feel emotionally close to my date/partner. There's a strong bond between us.
    24. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever





    25. I feel extremely comfortable with my partner/date.
    26. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    27. I feel valued and cherished by my date/partner
    28. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    29. I feel lots of excitement at the thought of my date/partner, and when I am with him/her.
    30. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    31. My partner/date loves to spend time in my company.
    32. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    33. My partner/date loves to compliment me.
    34. Usually
      Often
      Occasionally
      Rarely
      Hardly ever

    35. There is no one else I am currently attracted to as much as my partner/dater.
    36. Yes, definitely
      Not that I know of.
      Perhaps
      Can't say that
      definitely not

    THANK YOU. Please complete the details requested (for research), and click the SEND FORM button. Your score will be sent to you shortly.

    Gender and Age:





    SCORE KEY:
    (To get the most accurate result, the partner/date should also take the quiz and BOTH scores matched together.)

    79-90: You are certainly in a great relationship; one that has everything: respect, chemistry, reciprocity and sensitivity, at least from your perception. If he/she also agrees with you, what a match you both make!!

    64-78: This has great promise. Much attraction on both sides. However, you need to be more expressive and less cautious; to go with the flow and really enjoy each other.

    46-63: This friendship is a solid one, but as you seem unsure of many elements, will it really turn into romance or remain platonic? You both need to know what you want to make it work because some chemistry is clearly there but the sensitivity is lacking on one or both sides.

    28-45: This friendship has some potential but it would need BOTH of you to get it going. There seems to be too many ifs and buts as to its progress, not enough reciprocity and not enough effort being made to sustain it.

    13-27: This relationship won't get off the ground as you are the only one who seems to be really attracted to the other person. They would need to show you much more, and to take your needs into account before anything can happen. There is hardly any mutual chemistry here.

    0-12: This is is not a relationship. This is one person fancying another without much in return. You can certainly do better for yourself!


    What should I do if my score is not as expected?

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